A beautiful girl, full of fun and energy, lot of vibrance and very lovable.Ability to carry herself well,well educated and mixing and meeting people and looking forward to a journey in life that would be complementing her dreams.
Then comes the phase of her life when she meets up with the partner she wishes to make these dreams come true and shifts location from her hometown a 1000 kms away.That is where the journey of life changes tracks and the momentum slows down.It appears as if she lives for others with no voice of her own.She chose to as an ideal Indian woman from the yesteryears.Is that the way one should sacrifice his or her life?Why?When you have one life and God wants you to live that life then why be burdened and shackled in this , living for someone else.Huge sacrifice she has made,not uttered a word,though well educated ,preferred to take the back seat.50 years into this life and more she knows what she wants and yet unable to express it.Meet her alone and she shows those signs of cheer and a facade that she still has that vibrance.But deep within she is hurt and that reflects on the kids too.They want to protest and show signs of defiance which after sometime might erupt.The partner oblivious to all this and with a fixed mind set wants his way all the way.Is that the sheer male ego or the failure to accomplish what he had set out to do and unleash those frustrations here?
Midway in her journey , i recommend she changes course and drive back shedding all the inhibitions, dead weight, the fossils and the dead wood accumulated over the years and start a fresh within the defined space which she is comfortable and live for her self .Its never too late but yes,its earlier the better.I don't know if i am right or wrong in expressing my views as all i would like to see her is bloom in the second half of the life story and try and make her dreams come true where ever possible.God be with her and give her the strength and courage to take on the oddities in life.
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