This is not the HOT wrap around used by ladies in Thailand and elsewhere in the world, its the situation that one ends up, especially as a male when he is wrapped around the little finger by the lady of the house and in the process looses his identity for life.Usually , all males think they are to dominate any proceeding in life after and before marriage , be it sex or work or even a simple decision.This the biggest fallacy and unless one learns to respect the partner and give equal footing and opportunity to be heard ,marriage or partnership of any kind is never successful.The wrap around also in many cases as seen is trying to satisfy your inner ego and claim to the world look who comes on TOP.When disaster strikes , be it from below or a blitzkrieg above, its the steeple that falls first.
I have seen many such lives going waste and opportunities squandered only because of unhealthy egos and the "I KNOW ALL"factor.
People , the male particularly thinks he is a lion, when he sits at home and sleeps and spends unproductive hours , advising the world of his achievements that don't exist will perish within his 4 walls .What value does he add to his own life and his family.?He infact lets their brains rust because he never allows them to use it and thinks his brains are the most sought after in this world and ends up using it to the full, with zero recharge possibility.They also have a false notion that their's is the only way the world must proceed and all the family members toe the line with no questions.
Others , like to live off their wife's money , which even their wife may not have earned but her parents who have struggled to get there.How can one live off somebody with no value addition and zero self esteem?Shameless.Then they bleet and follow little Bo-peep every where she goes.Nods like Noddy to everything she says and does all odd jobs that is ordered to be done.
In both situations why do we allow this to happen.?God has given each one of us brains to be used, 2 eyes to see the world, 2 ears to hear and understand the happenings, and 1 mouth to use wise words selectively and ensure a peaceful happy world for self and others.I can't imagine how people love to live of others or be victims in life and allow every one to trample upon them.Never , ever be a VICTIM in life.Its better to hold the stick at the right end rather than be at the receiving end always.
Instead, wear wrap arounds and frolick on the beach with your loved ones, enjoying the bliss and absorbing the very essence of life , moment by moment and respect each other for being there at all times.
I have seen many such lives going waste and opportunities squandered only because of unhealthy egos and the "I KNOW ALL"factor.
People , the male particularly thinks he is a lion, when he sits at home and sleeps and spends unproductive hours , advising the world of his achievements that don't exist will perish within his 4 walls .What value does he add to his own life and his family.?He infact lets their brains rust because he never allows them to use it and thinks his brains are the most sought after in this world and ends up using it to the full, with zero recharge possibility.They also have a false notion that their's is the only way the world must proceed and all the family members toe the line with no questions.
Others , like to live off their wife's money , which even their wife may not have earned but her parents who have struggled to get there.How can one live off somebody with no value addition and zero self esteem?Shameless.Then they bleet and follow little Bo-peep every where she goes.Nods like Noddy to everything she says and does all odd jobs that is ordered to be done.
In both situations why do we allow this to happen.?God has given each one of us brains to be used, 2 eyes to see the world, 2 ears to hear and understand the happenings, and 1 mouth to use wise words selectively and ensure a peaceful happy world for self and others.I can't imagine how people love to live of others or be victims in life and allow every one to trample upon them.Never , ever be a VICTIM in life.Its better to hold the stick at the right end rather than be at the receiving end always.
Instead, wear wrap arounds and frolick on the beach with your loved ones, enjoying the bliss and absorbing the very essence of life , moment by moment and respect each other for being there at all times.
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