The EGO and the rate at which it gets inflated and starts rising above sea level defying all laws of gravity and commonsense and understanding is very rampant now a days.You come across so many of these daily and to stay clear from that is a huge task for any individual.The resultant in most cases ends up in arguments, fights, emotional stress that kills you from within,depressions,and many more lethal outcomes depending on the capacity of the individuals concerned to sustain the same.
Its starts at a young age and if properly trained in the upbringing process can definitely make a good impression in the later years.I have come across extremely polite, gentle people who never lose their cool, appear good but foolish to the snobbish outside world but who actually is a gem of an individual.By various psychological analysis one may interpret that as weak, docile, spineless etc but its not true.These are the people who know that getting into conflicts saps you out and leads to endless discussions and arguments that may some times become physically challenging as well.These are the true, strong balanced individuals one must try and become in life.But the Let GO portion is seldom taken up by people even if they preach the same to many others around.Actually it is simply....difficult.The situations that arise keep activating triggers at various times and points and depending on your state of mind, age, culture,upbringing etc you respond to stimuli.The big and the tall structured mostly feel that they can prevail over any situation physically as well as mentally .Perceptions ofcourse!!.Some just think they are the smart asses of this universe and that they can outdo any creature on this planet.A few are plain dumb stupid as they add no value to themselves as well as the society at large but still feel that they deserve respect and priority et- al.They live on a different planet and can be dispensed with actually.They not only make their own life complicated but the life of others depending on them or associated with them as well , be it in business or personal relations.
Trying to counsel, educate, talk it out or debate falls on deaf ears and the amount of exercise your tongue gets may make you loose weight and on the other hand add so much gas(helium) in the egoist ,that he/she just lifts of the planet.A pin is what that is required to prick these egos , but its easier said than done.Where and how conversations may lead to if this 3 letter word comes in between is anybodies guess.The strut of a rooster and the morning wake up alarm sets the tone for the day for any individual who loves to be in this hypo-critic, pseudo world of egoistic people.God has made them for all of us to accept the fact that be humble, down to earth ,simpleton and remember that if you cannot add any value don't erode it.
Its starts at a young age and if properly trained in the upbringing process can definitely make a good impression in the later years.I have come across extremely polite, gentle people who never lose their cool, appear good but foolish to the snobbish outside world but who actually is a gem of an individual.By various psychological analysis one may interpret that as weak, docile, spineless etc but its not true.These are the people who know that getting into conflicts saps you out and leads to endless discussions and arguments that may some times become physically challenging as well.These are the true, strong balanced individuals one must try and become in life.But the Let GO portion is seldom taken up by people even if they preach the same to many others around.Actually it is simply....difficult.The situations that arise keep activating triggers at various times and points and depending on your state of mind, age, culture,upbringing etc you respond to stimuli.The big and the tall structured mostly feel that they can prevail over any situation physically as well as mentally .Perceptions ofcourse!!.Some just think they are the smart asses of this universe and that they can outdo any creature on this planet.A few are plain dumb stupid as they add no value to themselves as well as the society at large but still feel that they deserve respect and priority et- al.They live on a different planet and can be dispensed with actually.They not only make their own life complicated but the life of others depending on them or associated with them as well , be it in business or personal relations.
Trying to counsel, educate, talk it out or debate falls on deaf ears and the amount of exercise your tongue gets may make you loose weight and on the other hand add so much gas(helium) in the egoist ,that he/she just lifts of the planet.A pin is what that is required to prick these egos , but its easier said than done.Where and how conversations may lead to if this 3 letter word comes in between is anybodies guess.The strut of a rooster and the morning wake up alarm sets the tone for the day for any individual who loves to be in this hypo-critic, pseudo world of egoistic people.God has made them for all of us to accept the fact that be humble, down to earth ,simpleton and remember that if you cannot add any value don't erode it.
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