The way people address the domestic helps or any person they consider below their social status, is really a pity.I sometimes wonder just because someone is less fortunate as of this instance and unable to get a better position in the so called pseudo society we live in , one should not treat the other with disrespect.Even if one has a point to make and that too a valid one , there are ways and means to put them across.On one hand we have the so called titles like "ben" and " bhai" which is used in Gujarat very commonly and stands for sister and brother respectively.On the other hand the attitude and the tone in addressing these so called low ranking persons is definitely a no-no.
I have noticed even with employees the behaviour the owners or senior staff has is kind off ," hey I own you and you do what ever i tell you to do!!" .The way it is assumed and the fact that its accepted by the people , one wonders ,"doesn't anyone have a self respect?".Giving bad words, using the foul language to the extent of making it a part of every breath you take, is obnoxious.People get cowed down with the show of these words alone ,imagine if it were to erupt into a physical show of strength.
God made one and all.Why not we speak to the people and give that respect they deserve.It takes patience as they may not have the capacity at present to view certain points the way we would.But, it ends up being a short conversation and doesn't hurt anyone.The work is done without the other person spewing venom in his mind and wishing the worst for us.The materialistic power that one accumulates actually starts this and all it needs is one jolt to bring him or her to the ground realities.One should remain humble always and treat everyone at par and see the outcome.Even a animal on the road deserves respect.Not to be kicked or stoned but guided to take the right path.Imagine yourself in that position and then!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I have noticed even with employees the behaviour the owners or senior staff has is kind off ," hey I own you and you do what ever i tell you to do!!" .The way it is assumed and the fact that its accepted by the people , one wonders ,"doesn't anyone have a self respect?".Giving bad words, using the foul language to the extent of making it a part of every breath you take, is obnoxious.People get cowed down with the show of these words alone ,imagine if it were to erupt into a physical show of strength.
God made one and all.Why not we speak to the people and give that respect they deserve.It takes patience as they may not have the capacity at present to view certain points the way we would.But, it ends up being a short conversation and doesn't hurt anyone.The work is done without the other person spewing venom in his mind and wishing the worst for us.The materialistic power that one accumulates actually starts this and all it needs is one jolt to bring him or her to the ground realities.One should remain humble always and treat everyone at par and see the outcome.Even a animal on the road deserves respect.Not to be kicked or stoned but guided to take the right path.Imagine yourself in that position and then!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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