Its become a very common issue nowadays especially where you hear about people getting engaged and married in a short span and then a few months down the road we hear about the cracks appearing in this relationship.The first tremors and then a conflict that fails to simmmer.
Why is this on the increase?
Is it because of the increasing pressures of the day to day life ?Is the ambitious drive both partners have and a desire to be someone and prove their independence the reason?
I see it more of impatience,lack of flexibility and understanding followed by all the above.The patience factor is definitely amiss!!Fast food, fast lifestyle, quick cash , and fast track actions is all taking the toll.
They must realize that marriage is a commitment for long term and not a draft to be en cashed the same day.The most important factor of understanding and giving things time to settle is utmost important.The quick and hasty decisions taken are many a times irrational and effect the lives of 2 families when the thread burns at both ends.
Hope the present generation give them enough inputs and trains them to face the next challenging task on the hands of the Gen next.
The total self centered attitude towards life,lack of training in compromise and adjustment due to small size family and over attentive parents. Zero tolerance and closed mindsets.Total adoption of western ideas and values have all led to this deterioration of conjugal relationships,in addition to the stresses which they are unable to cope with.
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