In life , we struggle, and however positive an outlook and attitude we may have , we still have to take major decisions for self, family, business and others.All this takes it toll and one may sense fatigue at times and you sit back to introspect , lots of thoughts flash across your mind.
Many a times you realise that you do share your thoughts,your actions you propose to take or consult your friend, wife or some one you trust or have faith in.In the professional network however you remain lonely at the top.The pressures mount by the day.The results and outcome is the benchmark of your success.You have to keep your cool and take rational decisions as you are the leader.The captain of the ship and you are to steer clear of all dangers that you may visualise or anticipate or some that are created to make things difficult for you.You are blitzing through cities and countries perhaps, using technology to the limits and discussing graphs and statistics that are mind boggling,% and fractions that sometimes make you hairline recede faster than the torrents of the high tide and low tide in the seas daily.The surf in the water becomes pepper and salt in terms of your hair and you age.Mentally and physically.Time doesn't stop for anyone and you cannot afford to miss out on any moment.
When these things are happening , its obvious you may be able to share this grind or crunch or emotional state of mind with some one in the office space or professional space who could comfort you and help you unwind.This is true.Where does one get that outlet?Who should he /she choose?What kind of emotional outlet one expects?How fast can he/she unwind?One thing is a must that one needs to unwind and fast , cause if you don't the results may be dreadful in the years to come.
If one gets a companion in such times, who could give comfort, in the same space and be a friend, a sponge,a muscle relaxant,a stress buster,a fun quotient who adds zest to your life, even in the professional space,it would in my opinion be the most sought after.It really helps you to change course, share some thoughts that make sense to the other person and connect at a different level mentally and perhaps physically.A bear hug, a warm handshake, an assuring pat on the shoulder, a flirty smile or remark,a quite coffee break or a simple drive make these stress levels disappear.This may not be possible in the home environment where one needs to switch over to a different tune.Explaining everything from scratch to any family member at home, is an ordeal and more over rewinding the episode itself is a disaster and stress builder than a buster.This applies for both sexes at work.If one can manage the equations well I say this is a need of the hour.Practise it.
Many a times you realise that you do share your thoughts,your actions you propose to take or consult your friend, wife or some one you trust or have faith in.In the professional network however you remain lonely at the top.The pressures mount by the day.The results and outcome is the benchmark of your success.You have to keep your cool and take rational decisions as you are the leader.The captain of the ship and you are to steer clear of all dangers that you may visualise or anticipate or some that are created to make things difficult for you.You are blitzing through cities and countries perhaps, using technology to the limits and discussing graphs and statistics that are mind boggling,% and fractions that sometimes make you hairline recede faster than the torrents of the high tide and low tide in the seas daily.The surf in the water becomes pepper and salt in terms of your hair and you age.Mentally and physically.Time doesn't stop for anyone and you cannot afford to miss out on any moment.
When these things are happening , its obvious you may be able to share this grind or crunch or emotional state of mind with some one in the office space or professional space who could comfort you and help you unwind.This is true.Where does one get that outlet?Who should he /she choose?What kind of emotional outlet one expects?How fast can he/she unwind?One thing is a must that one needs to unwind and fast , cause if you don't the results may be dreadful in the years to come.
If one gets a companion in such times, who could give comfort, in the same space and be a friend, a sponge,a muscle relaxant,a stress buster,a fun quotient who adds zest to your life, even in the professional space,it would in my opinion be the most sought after.It really helps you to change course, share some thoughts that make sense to the other person and connect at a different level mentally and perhaps physically.A bear hug, a warm handshake, an assuring pat on the shoulder, a flirty smile or remark,a quite coffee break or a simple drive make these stress levels disappear.This may not be possible in the home environment where one needs to switch over to a different tune.Explaining everything from scratch to any family member at home, is an ordeal and more over rewinding the episode itself is a disaster and stress builder than a buster.This applies for both sexes at work.If one can manage the equations well I say this is a need of the hour.Practise it.
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