Tuesday, 2 July 2013

power of "W"

Women,are the fairer sex,the supposedly weaker amongst the 2 sexes, the meeker and definitely considered to be the first one to bow out  of challenges as is perceived by the society.These have been beliefs that are still considered true across borders and making every one think from child hood that a woman is some one you can use, abuse and discard like a door mat and even if you don't give respect or regard, this category can be twisted and manupilated by the males at large the way they want.

Who gave these males the right to decide this anyway?Who does Rahul Gandhi think he is when he states that women must get 50% participation in politics?Why not more?Is he doing a favor to them?Why do women have to struggle and fight for their own existence which god has given .?Why do they always have to prove their innocence in a case like rape and face the wrath of panchayats and corrupt , dastard officials in the police force.Why do they have to be at the receiving end all the time?

Women today work in all sectors.Defence, aeronautical, space, research, medicine, engineering and MBA's and yet manage home, husbands,children,and gossip.This indeed is phenomenal multitasking.We as males can be focused yes but that kind of multitasking needs special skills and prowess which may not be physical necessarily or be demonstrated by  the  six pack hunks and brawn torso , but mental grit, sheer perseverance and tons of patience and a large heart to accommodate and bear all the brunt of male chauvinism.Yet, the males get the heart attacks and not the fairer sex is the irony.

Why don't we learn to accept them and acknowledge their strengths as they can be strong and equally compassionate.Daughters are indeed the apple of the eye of their fathers.The Mother is the source of your very being and she is a woman.The wife is the pillar of support for the males to achieve their material success and so called happiness they claim they give to the family.The lady can work in office and manage the nitty gritties of the Kitchen and household chores, whereas we as males come back from a hectic day of office and its politics and number crunching, and want to relax and sip coffee and crib.Order around for certain types of food for dinner and get with our whims and fancies ,while she slogs it out on all fronts.

We as males probably don't wish to acknowledge their superiority or capability to challenge us and hence we try to push them out.This is certainly unfair and must be given an even turf and platform to measure and work together to get the best .The world will be a great place with the right people in the right places irrespective of gender.

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