wonder why?

All is going well and then all of a sudden ,life changes gears and you land up wondering why?Has this happened to you all?I too believe in going with the flow and aligning , realigning in life.Ups and downs, fast and slow tracks, we need to have that positive attitude and a smile on the face to keep moving.
I was told to keep loving myself so that you are ready to face any situation with grit and determination.Yes it does help.I fight within my mind space and have a duel with the thoughts that keep distrupting my happiness.I say to myself" to hell with these thoughts and chuck them out".They pop back!I meditate to get to the inner peace and it takes me through for some time, till the other thoughts start clamoring.The thoughts of what if?I try to keep these at bay to the maximum and yet they keep climbing all over me.I sometimes wonder that if i don't express them and get them out quick , my mind will become a railway station in Mumbai during peak hour traffic.

If i have my mind idling then off it goes in a tangent to all those worrisome thoughts and you need to digress and involve into something positive to keep yourself going.Actually , I am very happy, quite content with myself and moving at a pace I like.I need not have any thing to really make me get into this spin.Its all about family and your loved ones that keeps you engaged and at the same time concerned,what if?I will face the medicos again due to some issue soon and it puts you back in terms of can i still get back to the same pace as before.Just because i have been through that health concern, does it slow down my pace and energy with which i wish to move ahead in life?I know it takes realigning.I also know it is like a  rubber band and its upto you as an individual to bounce back chucking out all these negativity.Why then does this bog my mind ?I miss interacting with individuals and exchanging brain stimulating conversations.They make me go,They make me forget these stupid thoughts.But they cann't last for hours or days.What a dilemma?

But blogging has helped me immensely to bring these thoughts to the fore, express them candidly and maybe seek views and opinions as well.Hope this avenue makes me stronger going ahead.

(0)pposition

This is read as Zero Position.This is not the latitude/Longitude or GMT specification , but its the sheer disregard shown by our Opposition parties in the shameful incident that has shook India.The ruling party is clueless and cannot strike a chord with the people at large.They mumble or fumble and inspite of a lady having the remote have not dared to face the truth by coming and trying to understand the sentiments of the Delhi public.The opposition took photo opportunities, stated a few words and forgot.This  is the difference between us and the international community.They step out , act and deliver quick.We ruminate, procrastinate and fail to even deliver .False assurances inspite of 7500 registered rapes in the country in one year and one every 22 minute is shameful.They don't need tons of people to act on this.They need people with a will, guts to deliver and execute the sentence and make it a law.The "aye' and 'nay" in the parliament in this case must be 200% "aye"whenever it convenes..The fast track court to just announce took 7 days!!!!!!!!The people presiding there , hopefully are not dummies!!!

Our Home minister and Home secy have contributed to the ever increasing Indian population with 3 girl child each and are trying to tell the public that they are in  synch with public sentiments?????Are we to believe them?They travel in red beacon cars and best of places escorted by security and not in buses and ordinary transport means as done by us.The opposition also,sedate and lost .God knows who can govern a country like ours and take it safely to the future.

Poster boy and future PM aspirant is nowhere to be seen....maybe visiting Amethi......................................Where is his youth brigade????Where is his will and commitment???

Ticket to Hell

The cruel incident that shook India and the world as well, about the rape in Delhi is now being torn to shreds on every TV channel.The endless debates, some sombre, some very vociferous,some going into a spin grinding the same flour whereas other trying to seek solutions that are workable. One starts pointing at the law and order situation in Delhi and the incompetent police, the unfair distribution of 85000 cops with more than 7500 on VVIP duty leaving just 1 cop per 350 people!!!!! Then come the number of pickets and check points (manned and alert) at different points.These are followed by sting operations by TV crew to capture the bytes of police officials through spy cam and generate more hatred and anger towards the cops who are caught napping or don't know what to express and yet do so just to be on TV.Then we shift to the MHA and the secy of Home defending the smart work carried out by the cops and giving those same assurances that they keep giving for years and end up no where.To add spice ,the home secretary travels in a bus at night and visits places like Connaught place in the upmarket Delhi area, to check the police patrolling where such crimes would not take place generally.

Then we shift focus to the public on the streets at large demanding safety for all and especially ladies."Placards like "Our voices are louder than our skirts","Rapist should be hanged"etc and burning candles and keeping a vigil at night.The CM initially powering them down with water cannons and then offering her security for night patrolling!!!The crocodile tears of some politicos and some genuine heartfelt statements all become a part of the daily life of an Indian who keeps wishing this and then......................

We forget.The same politicians have no will to exercise the legislations, to pass stringent laws and actually apply them on ground with no interference , which is of utmost importance.The various law and order agencies are pushed to the wall with this interference from  the bigwigs and that breaks down the entire intent.Then the attitude of the miserly paid cops made to work overtime every day, no holidays, no family life, no weapons and authority, always being rundown by the superiors and therefore looking at securing their lives with money than get into all this .Who would join the forces??and why??To be butted around in public and humiliated by any tom, dick and harry just because of his connections?If we had cops like "dirty Harry" who vow to execute and settle cases then and there would be ideal, but would require restraint and maturity to assess such cases.Even if we pass stringent laws and the cases keep  happening , the judiciary cannot keep on giving capital punishment or measure Rape vs rape and evaluate what punishment the culprit deserves.The noose or chemical castration .In this particular case capital  punishment to all is a must to drive home that message " NO messing around with the daughters of India".However, in future ,create a special women cell for such incidents if any and push the case through fast track courts announcing the punishments like a fatwa issued by Taliban and highlighting those to ensure others don't  ever dare to tread that path.The attitude of men towards their wives, daughters and female colleagues need to change.Ladies should also try not to provoke the male scents and films in particular as well as TV soaps should stop the blatant use of sex and extramarital affairs and blowing hot scenes across billboards in the county.

On the longterm, sex education in school should be started much earlier.The most important being educating the uneducated villagers how to treat, respect and love women.The public at large, that is US, must have enough courage to stand up and fight and protect any damsel in distress , however large or small the case may be.Start to eliminate the root cause like eve teasing.10 lashes in public will do the job.groping 50 lashes in public and anything beyond" ticket to hell"............

Minority

These are issues raised and created by Politicians to divide and rule and offer baits to just secure their seats.Why do we fall prey to these actions?Why cann't the so called minority stop being the VICTIMS always and play a more proactive role and add value as they do in their own businesses.?What is wrong in supporting the person who has delivered on many fronts in a shorter time than those who have been ruling as a family dynasty for over 100 years?They are corrupt to the core, shameless and spineless and should never be voted into power.Either , one opts for the next best choice like Mr.Modi for instance who has demonstrated what he can do and if supported wholeheartedly with an open mind, it would be an example of unity, patriotism and commonsense application pan India.

By allowing these goons at the center to play with the sentiments and misguide the uneducated youth of this minority community , they are destroying the fabric of the nation.The caste based  politics, the reservations etc is all a game where none of these politicos get effected.They care a damn about the nation and least about the people.Its only " I, ME, MYSELF AND MY CHAIR".Let there be a level playing field, proactively work together in groups at local levels and then state levels to strengthen the public at large without politicizing it and then show what we can do as INDIANS rather than community xyz.

second line

Mr.Modi.Congratulations on a Hat trick.A trifle disappointed to see congress get those 10-15 extra votes inspite of the scams etc.Wonder what people see in there still??

My earnest request to you Mr.Modi , is to create a team  and a second line with a succession plan who is capable of taking  this progress in Gujarat forward .You have set the ground rules .Now someone capable has to have the same charisma as you ,to take things forward ,and hold the bastion.Invariably , people like you as an  Individual above the party you represent, and vote for you as an Individual.But looking at the larger canvas , its imperative for you to create that confidence in people of Gujarat( 6 crore plus as you mention) and bring successor to the fore already , so that you can make your  moves onto the national circuit and your successor runs the show here.

You have already proven your mettle and the main job of a coach ,mentor and guide is to help create more individuals like you and train them to take accountability in their hands and make them stake holders in the true sense of the term.If that is not done, people will be disappointed and the development plank will get into a reverse gear with the unwanted, dead wood occupying the seats of power.Trust you have your plans in  place.

I am not a Gujarati, but staying in Baroda and mainly as an Indian have full  faith in you to lead this country ably.Good luck and God bless.

irish ire

This is what can be done in India.The Irish Govt.based on a fiasco that shook the world after a death of an Indian origin Doctor that  took place, took measures to ensure such incidents are thwarted and legalised abortion, inspite of religious sentiments .Could this ever happen that soon in India?.

I would like to see capital punishment, fast track courts and quicker sensible decision making by the MP's in both houses of Parliament to ensure we mean business and will not tolerate such atrocities and nonsense.Instead of just stalling the parliament proceedings, creating a ruckus over stale issues,and wasting millions,this will send  a message to the crime world that we Indians cannot be taken for granted , as well as to the international community that we have a SPINE and we don't just MUMBLE.

Does it require many such incidences or sacrifices by innocent civilians for the Indian Govt. to react ?Only Its internal resolve and external pressure by the citizen, that helps it to take place.We must exert enough and more to ensure the women of India are safe and every family would take pride in having a daughter at their place. I want to see the level of tolerance we have to keep taking this #@** thrown at us and we keep voicing out virtually and on electronic medium with meek voices rather than action on the ground with minimal blame game..

D'rape Kapital

This is what Delhi is becoming,from a crime capital to the above.Ladies at the helm  of affairs , one for over decades and the other running the center and yet all  they can do is exchange letters after a 48 hrs wait.The PM ......what to say.Mum( not MOM) is the word.No views and no clues.The Home minister is new and hence is building rapport with Pakistan, therefore is overburdened with work.So then we start the blame game.Delhi Cops!!!Batter them.The crime against women cell, the media, the society take to  the streets,the MP's wake up and start taking note of the ground realities as they have never faced these situations in actual life.

But , who are the real ones to be blamed? Cops alone?How many vehicles can  they patrol and check physically?Do they have enough police per 1000 people to control the kind of crowds we have?Do they have enough pickets and of course then the time to devote to common man from the VIP;s of the capital who need unnecessary protection.The cops are lethargic, they are under paid, they don't care a damn, they are corrupt all that.But then , what about politicos?Aren't they the same?Have they fought hard to bring in stringent laws and more so create an environment to enforce them?They go and overrule the cops, drive in red beacon cars flashing sten guns and showing false power.With this kind of culture , its free for all.
What about us? Society?Halkat jawani songs, Jism 1-2-3 and the erotic scenes,Sunny Leone,Mahesh Bhatt's and Mallika's, the dance bars and alcohol stir up the hidden animal instincts in the Indian public, titillate them  and lead  them to do such heinous crimes?They don't have to be psychologically deranged to do this as claimed by Docs?

With the news channels describing the crime to the last detail has messed up the life of the poor family that is undergoing hell after what has happened to their daughter.The poor girl is struggling for her life.The society will never ever accept her as normal again even if we try.The same people burning candles will look away.We are to be blamed for allowing this and not just the cops.The Taliban has a proper code for this and I think  that is just right,No questions , just execute in public .No one should dare to look at a a girl with an evil eye.But then, this too could be wrongly interpreted and maybe at some point the law may be misused against a male.Quite possible.So how does one tackle all this.?In the USA whacko's go on a shooting spree killing innocent children, In Pakistan the Taliban keeps mining suicide bombers blowing up anything in their way,In the gulf people fighting and killing for reasons best known to them trying to occupy land.Aren't these the signs of doomsday coming soon.Each one of us has to police and make society a better place.Lets get down to business and make this world a better place to live.

We need to make us Indians fear and respect the law as in other countries!!We need no interference from politicians at any stage be it CBI,CID or plain police.Society at large should also do its little bit to avoid such situations than just passing the buck.The ladies should also take  care to balance the culture shift and dressing sense so as not to trigger of the male scents.One needs both hands to clap.If both sides are strictly adhered to and the laws of the state are implemented with serious intent and executed in time with the right message , no one will dare to rise above the law.

The final frontier

Politicians just don't learn.They keep on doing the same things forming new parties and trying to split and dividing the canvas, rather than build on it and create a new , better , cleaner image.All the stalwarts who came in and scooted of in GUJARAT were a sight to watch.The squeals and whimpers , the cat and mouse chase and trying to put a smile on their faces, flashing victory signs that are far away from reality.What a plight.The best thing I liked about these Gujarat elections were the voter turnout %.70% is Mind blowing.This is what we all must learn The educated urban class that must make the difference rather than those who get swayed with false promises and few rupees thrown at them.The caste based vote bank politics has to be squashed.We the people of India have the right to chose and elect the right representatives.Politicians are human beings and will rarely be clean.The only thing that we need to see is that we are moving, progressing, and not doing flip flops and U -turns like the spineless people today.

The results are going to show a new dawn and bring in fresh sunlight that will burn the weeds and grow new trees making the environment better in my opinion.This is the stepping stone to the centre for Mr.Modi and nobody in the opposition or ruling party can deny his passage.He deserves this fully and is the only sensible person with an Iron hand to govern this Nation.People will come and go even at the age of 78 and 83 years wanting to be alive in politics.Just shows the greed and hunger pangs of power.We need a fresh, fiery persona to represent us in the World and not people who have a squeaky voice and lack guts to turn around things.We need statesmen who make an impact consistently here and nationwide, and not boys running around looking cute.They should be acknowledged by the world leaders so that they realize what India is all about and not have a team of penguins and cattle running behind a shepherd who himself  has lost his way.

Lets help Mr.Modi make a strong and powerful India..Join hands together and exercise your ballot the next time and  ensure we have a single  party consensus than a sabzi mandi that is running our country now.Go for it Mr.Modi, we have a ray of Hope in you.As an Indian citizen , I am  supporting you and your initiatives whole heartedly.

sadbhavana

The  interior minister of Pakistan comes to India on  a SADBHAVANA mission (so called) and makes outrageous statements and then saying he was misquoted etc is such a disaster.This is taking Gandhiji's principles too far.People come, slap us, kick us and abuse us and we give our cheek, and the back side to be kicked harder.What self esteem do we?Do we have any respect and love for our country?1.2 Billion Indians and we are just gaping at the dirt thrown on us by our own media.

What Dumb people we have that run this country.Do we have anyone who can do the same in Pakistan when they visit ? Do we have the guts to do  such a thing and keep smiling and waving to the pakistani AWAM as we get to see here on our own soil?We go and accept awards for film stars" Nishan -e-Pakistan, keep pushing envelopes with the hope that some one fine day we will get Justice for 26/11!!!!!!Never in this lifetime.....

The Pakistani government cannot manage their own country and people,what sadbhavana can they create with us? Mr.Modi , is right.It demonstrates very clearly how weak we are .Feel sad as an Indian who cannot get justice for a slained braveheart captain of the Indian army,cannot book and try a terrorist who wrecked havoc on our parliament,cannot make bold and strong statements any where in the world like China does,and our own people in power on such a large landmass are making it porous by corruption and creating dissent within.Never will we ever learn a lesson that the British taught us during their 150 years of occupation.

Time Mr. Modi , takes over and shows the world that India can be governed better and stronger .

white wash

Looking at the savvy advertising on TV for face whitening creams, lotions, soaps and natural and xyz therapy, and the tons of people falling for it makes me wonder,are we really that desperate.Imagine ,getting a glow on your skin and making it fairer in 7 days ,against the laws of nature!!!.It is a boon in disguise as we will have no more racism.All whites, world wide.Africa would be a fairer continent, India would not need foreign tourist at Pushkar festival in Rajasthan.

There have been so many claims, be it germ free handwash( 99.99% or 98% to make it sound authentic and save the blushes of legal claims) these products are marketed across which makes me apply a simple logic.If i were to use the handwash that makes my hands 98% germ free and the other handwash which is competition 99.99% together, i may get almost a 100% germ free wash.Same with anti ageing creams and all face whitening creams that  supposedly make you Handsome?if used in tandem would possibly make me the most sought after male of the century for sure.If all toothpaste were mixed and used , my teeth will be immortal.Olive oil, sunflower oil and corn oil together may result in the most healthy baby of all times.Selling is telling lies ,convincingly,i know because I have been in Marketing and Sales all these years .However , the degree to which you subject the audiences today is too much to digest.

In the good old days , without all this ,still we had the most beautiful and charming faces and handsome men who dominated the film Industry and the political canvas.They drank, smoked ,but toiled hard that made them successful and kept them healthy, internally.All the external face lifts, tummy tucks, plastic surgeries were not done.Millions of dollars are spent in making mankind feel that they can reverse the law of nature and we get fooled into believing the same.

Management by religion

We Indians are a religious lot.In the process we are suppose to be innocently(stupidly most of the times) following many things under the name of religion and creating divides amongst us).This gives opportunities for others to step into the game and exploit us to no ends.

Temples are spread all over India.Then there is classifications based on the Deity, the location, the trust supporting it, the foreign investments ( FDI in religion),etc.Then the word of mouth stating "If xyz is offered to this deity your wishes would be granted"becomes the Mantra to pull crowd.If that was the case the wishes of all those who are serving in the temple would have been granted long back.But ,they know that just being there under the umbrella of the deity doing the daily chores gets them enough ..The kind of turnover the religious places get (devoid of tax due to exemptions et al) it can surpass  the economy of many a countries.The Tirumala, The shirdi trust, The Ajmer Dargah are just a few examples.The place generates revenue almost every square inch,Put an idol and people put money.Make prasad and sell it.Its an industry by it self.We intend to donate and do good etc or maybe try for income tax exemption by donating maybe in our own interest, but does it really reach the people who need it?

The volunteers who serve there, really wish to be part of the charity ,but the trustees ,are they really to be trusted?Instead of adorning the idol with Gold and silver and valuable precious stones which God clearly states is materialsitic, why don't we melt the metal, sell it and create funds to help the BPL people for food, education and create an industry that will earn them a living.Take help from professionals who can put that money to good use rather than just sparkle there.God has enough aura and doesn't require mankind to adorn him in gold and silver.When the people of foreign origin also realize the ROI opportunities in India through the religious channels , it will not be far when we will have "ISCKON TV".We are creating these shrines across India, thereby giving the future generations more opportunities to create Ayodhya's.The politicians will encourage caste based reservations who in turn will apply those regulations to the GODS as well, who knows?This is a god for X caste and the other for the Y sect?Money from here will go to only this caste and society and the FDI ( ISKCON) will generate donations for the foreign investors and their homes abroad.What a country ?What potential?Only we don't benefit, select few do under the name of god.1.2 billion brains and counting all closeted and with blinders.JAI HO!!!

what if?

Many of us procrastinate and keep twiddling our thumbs, crossing our legs and tying up our hands wondering what next?What if, this happens or doesn't happen? In this conflict of the mind ,we remain inconclusive on many a critical issue and then sit on the fence , not knowing which side to jump.

The current generation is even more confused it appears.They are very judgmental and react to extreme ends.Some want to jump into it wholeheartedly irrespective of the consequences, more because they don't have additional responsibilities on their shoulders , its a new start to  their lives,and if ,married and both earning ...then WOW.The other lot keep chewing the cud and ruminate no ends.They love chewing gum and make rubber out of gum that messes up with their cavities not only in their oral hygiene but also their mental space.Some love to bask under their cozy umbrella , encouraged by their parents and in  laws and spoiling their lives by not allowing them to get exposed to the realities of this world.If in this hire and fire world where pink slips are getting common, one needs to stand up and face the harsh realities.People get fancy designations doled out at a very young age, smartly put up the company HR so that they get the employees to believe that they have reached the penultimate position and for the lay man he becomes BIG BOSS.The truth being , many such guys loiter around that space in the office premises and keep doing the same jobs.If one decides to step out , he has no option but to search for a higher position as socially and professionally defined, or step down in the eyes of people considering that as a demotion, or stick back to where you are.

Imagine a Vice president in a top Bank  at an age of say 27-29.What next???President of another bank at age 33??????One in a million chance??What if he doesn't get that?Senior Manager at another company would be accepted, or would it be a step down?????The profile he would do would be the same .This way imagine what would happen to this person by the retirement age of 60!!!!!!For 30 plus years he will remain at the same designation with small tweaks to motivate him.What a smart plan.Do we see this or we just blindly follow?Think and act.Decide rationally and keep emotions aside at home.Its a tough world and one requires a lot of patience, proactive nature and a very positive attitude.Some believe that I must work in this line only as that's what i know best?How would you know if that is the best unless you try other lines as well???Who knows you may succeed more?But does one have it in him or her to take these bold steps??Age is not an issue?You need to have a heart and will to drive the car to the goal you want to reach.And trust me you will reach it.Take steps, take sides but think rationally and then go for it.Every lock has a key.Every problem is there because there is a solution.You only need the person to unlock its treasures.

god almighty

The movie OMG in Bollywood is so well made and presented , with facts that set your rational mindspace in full throttle.The arguments presented in court, the correlation between the Koran,bible and Geeta, the ultimate truth about religion and the lies of the  so called " rightful mediators between god and us"is awesome.Its true.God is not any single place.He is omnipresent.You need to search within and with faith you will find him.We must not negotiate terms with him.No give and take business.Its a surrender stating that you have chosen the path he would like you to follow.

The 3-4 characters that depict the so called big bluffs who under the pretext of religion and god have amassed millions and fly in private jets,  leaving the hungry stranded at the doors of each religious shrine.The truth about all kinds of accessories distributed under the name of god and scaring the living daylights of the people if they don't wear it on person etc is a big commercial business.These same then become big superstitions and are blindly followed even by the educated lot.

The dialogue that states " because the building that collapsed had many a deity of god that were buried , it would be cursed and would not have commercial value or success?????However , years later , if excavated would earn millions as it would turn out to be a heritage site and the vintage value automatically props up the same place value .Ironical  isn't it?The "act of god" phenomenon and the insurance companies exploiting the innocent clients with "small text" and false advertisement propaganda are nicely exposed.The so called " fast unto death" and "footprints for 15000o rs under the pretext of GOD is a shame.The depiction of the lady "mata" bearing close resemblance to certain living individuals is very pronounced.Wish Ponty Chadda who produced this film, had realized its potential and truth earlier.

wat(er) power

Badly bruised plants, dried and shriveled in the summers, covered with icicles in winter and facing the brunt of the global warming all wake up to a small rain shower..What power.You sprinkle water into the lives of these plants and they glow as if you have used OLAY anti aging creams!!

God has made the human body with water as the major constituent.Water a plant, and it gets nourished.The natural resource is so valuable, that if we keep aside all the fast food nonsense and drink water a plenty, the human body, in my opinion would put all cosmetic companies out of business.The ancient scriptures and vedas do mention the importance of water.We are advised to drink at least 8 glasses every day and yet how difficult it is for us to learn from whats happening around us.The awareness in human beings, if it even goes up by 10% it would be a great value add to the quality of life.It is such a precious commodity that one day we will realize oil and crude will deplete and we can survive , but with no water.????

Please conserve,realize the importance of it and make it part of your every day routine.

customer ec(centric)

This word makes its rounds in all  markets , all industries across the globe and in fact has become synonymous with delight, happiness, revenue, profitability and retention at an optimal cost etc etc.How many of us really value that and have an approach that we passionately pursue?.

People have to keep things simple and just relate with the other soul and trust me its not a very high precision, hi tech job that has to be taught.It has to come from within.Common sense also needs to prevail and also be used at the appropriate times to ensure maximum success.You can win all battles but you surely would be remembered for having presented yourself ably and with a genuine intent to resolve any crisis or situation .Happiness, delight is also relative.The best is never there yet even if you were to have spent years in the industry.But the ability to diffuse a crisis, manage the smile on the face of an irate client is an art.It can be a masterpiece that will be better than a Michelangelo

The egos clash, BP  rise skyhigh, doctors do booming business and the world watches the fun at your expense.Sometimes people step out of such a battle as if it were coming out of Trafalgar or waterloo.Triumphant most of the time , but mentally hurt.Alternately physically hurt ,but mentally victorious.
What an achievement!!Great show.If we use some 10 seconds to take a deep breath and analyse the situation before we react and then take steps to set things on the right course , the situation would be entirely different.Getting angry and flashing your ego, flexing your muscles doesn't reach you anywhere.Infact deflating the others ego wins  you half the battle by simply acknowledging his views and doing things appropriate that make it logical and rational to explain.Once temperatures cool, world suddenly becomes a better place to live in.

Live another day,bring more delight.Hail Customers

When the bells toll

This happens once in a lifetime for most of us and a few are blessed not to have it at all.Some have more than once an opportunity to get married not having learnt from the first experience.This is awesome isn't it?

Just take an overview or should I say a sky view of the things that happen in a marriage.The frenzy, the chaos, the bizzare way of blowing money and sending it up in smoke, flowers and sweets and champagne, followed by Music et al..You would always find a close confidant of the bride ,running panic stricken for no reason, dressed to kill.The grooms pal on the other hand is digging for all the pranks possible that they can find to make his life hell.The kids on the block are dressed in the fanciest of clothes just for the day, and create stumbling blocks at times in the alleys and pathways which are flowing with people.The music may be from a shehnai to the latest numbers from Bollywood ,depending upon the mood one wants to create.The caterers start their bit and the aroma of various Indian spices, make their way through the nasal passages  of the people gathered that  they slowly drift towards the spread.The looks on the face of the people show if the sense of smell is deceptive or not.The photographers go blitzkrieg, and since rolls are outdated the digital formats and SD cards give them enough scope to keep exploring all angles.The gifts and bouquets collected can help the bridegroom to start their own florist shop in my opinion.

The traffic jam  one has to wade through to find a parking is the most discouraging entry point for any function.The relations and friends who exchange big smiles are bright enough to save camera flash some time.Some of us meet with that plastic smile pasted on their faces , hullo!!!How are you ?American Accent borrowed for that time with a Tamil or Gujarathi twang .Others start blabbering about their success stories of having their children abroad ( 90% usa, 5% canada, 5% UK).Little do they tell us , how lonely they are with no one besides them.Some parents are shocked when they get to know that their son has already married a "FIRANG"(GATEWAY to green cards et al).The current generation with confused and bored looks try to while away time on Iphones, and whatsup and are oblivious to the surrounding, till the monotony is broken.Wow what a function.................................

One helluva experience.........

god bless

Notice the people in most of the holy shrines, be it a temple, church, dargah,gurudwara and there are many similarities.The kind of people who throng due to the ever increasing stress and problems they accumulate for themselves as they love to complicate their lives and not keep it simple.Agreed, people have difficulties, as all of us have ,but the very fact that god has made you go through these trying times is for you to come out more stronger , more matured and more wiser from the same.The people coming there are from all strata of life and of various age groups.Children tag along , some because the parents force them, and some because they love to.The youngsters because the exams are round the corner and its a question of what next in life.Maybe they have a situation where love matters need to be confidentially addressed and solutions are sought in his abode.Rich and poor,enter the holy sanctum and search for loose change and soiled currency notes to offer as donations..!!! The very source of what we are is being offered the smallest change in return for all that he gives us.What a pity!!We human beings are so crooked and always negotiate with almighty,stating,if this happens , i will do that !!!Why all this 'want"and craving to acquire materialistic useless things that could be somebody else's when you are not there anymore to enjoy them.

The urgency to meet God is seen in the rush to stand in a queue,take a special ticket at a special price,cut corners and apply influence and political pressure to cut through the lines and serpentine queues.Even after reaching closest to him you still quickly do the actions from outside as if you are a trained "chimpanzee" and walk away.Why??God will meet you every where, anywhere and anytime provided you have a genuine intent to meet him as well.I have come across people who are so busy(doing what , I don't know) but will take the darshan from a distance and quickly whiz past completing the formalities.Some behave as if they are 'GOD"!!They will dress up and give all kinds of impressions to make one feel as if he is the ultimate.God save them and the gullible people who fall in these traps.The way people dress up when they visit a holy shrine, the body odours, the actions and display of "surrender" are fascinating indeed.The hurry and quick entry exit is even more fascinating.Eating the prasad is as if they never ate in their lives ever.Attending mobile phones in the premise is something I always fail to understand inspite of clear signages stating not to do so.

Washing your feet before you enter the premise is mandatory and yet people come in socks.Some take a wash as if they are having a bath and even clearing their throats there!!!!!!!!Ugh.How do people even not have that simple common sense ??The trustees behave as if they own "GOD"!!!God must be smiling down upon us to see the assorted specimens he has created and the chaos we create which is an experience for him as well, I presume.Sorry God for all these mishaps and wish I could be more tolerant as he is to accept this or try and change it and make the world a better place by striving to create awareness patiently..